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A Wife’s Secret To Happiness
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The key to a strong family unit is a strong foundation. Subscribe to win a free copy of this book! Recently, I came across this book A Wife’s Secret To Happiness. As a married woman of several years, I asked myself what is A Wife’s Secret To Happiness? I contemplated the thought myself. Prior to reading the book, my thoughts were a wife’s secret to happiness is carving time for herself as a woman, maintaining her individuality, and discovery of the joy in giving.
As I began to read the book, I was reminded of good advice every wife should remember. Jen Weaver beautifully writes this scriptural based, love letter to wives. The first chapter is all about the Blessing of Three Strands.
The book breaks down who the three strands represent and why they are so important in a unique way. Throughout the book there are “Wifestyle” quizzes. Wifestyles are tendencies in our day to day interactions with our husbands. Readers, by completing these quizzes, can determine their Wifestyle or habits and work toward improving these habits as needed.
I really enjoyed the real life Wifestyle stories. These stories were real life experiences that many wives can relate to. Marianne’s Real Life #Wifestylin story was eye opening to me.
“When we took personality tests as part of our marriage counseling, our pastor opened the results, studied them for a moment, then leaned back in his chair and took a deep breath. We were polar opposites on nearly every part of the scale.
The pastor later told us this: “Because of your extreme differences, you have the potential to be strong for one another when the other is weak. You have a rare opportunity to be a very complete unit where, between the two of you, nearly every strength is covered because you fill in each other’s gaps. But if you don’t fill in each other’s weaknesses with your opposite strengths, you will have a difficult, tension-filled marriage.” From the book A Wife’s Secret To Happiness By Jen Weaver.
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Another aspect I really enjoyed about the book is Jen’s transparency and openness regarding her own marriage. She writes “Our disconnect fed my insecurities as jagged scars from his past…my past…our past… cut fresh wounds in my heart. Guilt became my companion. Guilt for doing some things but not others. Guilt for what didn’t get done, for not doing better, not being stronger. Guilty for the guilt, I grew bitter. Jared’s capacity seemed limited to his profession when the Jaws of Life forced open my daily functions to include wife, stay at home mom, work from home executive, personal assistant, chef, housekeeper, and somewhere in there, sex kitten. I resented that we somehow expected me to do everything else.” From the book A Wife’s Secret to Happiness By Jen Weaver.
Marriage is challenging and A Wife’s Secret to Happiness gives women resources and tools to help weather the storm. This book was eloquently written and is a good read. It is a book for current wives, soon to be wives, or women contemplating marriage.
I will have a drawing for one free copy of A Wife’s Secret to Happiness. Subscribe to Career and Family Life below or on the right-side bar by entering your name and email address. The promotion will run from Monday, March 13, 2017 thru Monday, March 20th. The lucky winner will be announced on Tuesday, March 21st. You also can purchase your copy here or visit www.thejenweaver.com.
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Written by: Rochella Neely
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